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Divorce Impacts: The Challenges of Getting Through the Stigma

Posted by Crissy Del Percio | Nov 25, 2019 | 0 Comments

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Divorce can be a transformative life event that's often shrouded in preconceived notions and judgment. Divorce stigma can impact individuals socially, emotionally, and legally. Therefore, this research seeks to expose misconceptions regarding divorce while increasing our collective knowledge about it.

The Societal Gaze
Unfortunately, divorce has come under scrutiny by society; with its predominant narrative portraying it as an indication of failure or personal inadequacies. This stigma often results from cultural or traditional expectations that consider marriage sacred. Any deviation from that norm may be perceived negatively by society.

Emotional Resilience
To overcome the stigma associated with divorce, individuals must confront their emotions and resilience head-on. People may struggle with feelings of guilt, shame, or inadequacy which are compounded by outside judgments. Divorce should not be seen as a failure but as an opportunity for personal growth and well-being. To break free from society's judgment, it's crucial to build emotional resilience.

Divorce Stigma and Its Impact on Mental Health
Divorce stigma has an immense toll on mental health. Fear of judgment and social isolation may contribute to depression and anxiety, making professional help necessary to build supportive networks of friends, family members, and therapeutic communities that will assist with healing. Seeking professional help doesn't represent weakness but instead an active step toward recovery and should be seen as part of healing the individual involved.

Breaking Silence
To combat the stigma surrounding divorce, conversations about its emotions and challenges must take place openly. Discussing such topics helps break down judgmental walls while increasing empathy among listeners. Sharing personal stories may even empower individuals as well as challenge social norms.

Legal Implications
Divorce stigma has an enormously detrimental impact on court proceedings and child custody arrangements. Misconceptions regarding a parent's abilities or character can creep into legal proceedings and compromise results. It is vitally important that professionals who specialize in divorce do not perpetuate stereotypes further.

Constantly Shifting Family Dynamics
Social perceptions regarding family dynamics contribute significantly to the stigma of divorce. Society's expectation for nuclear or mono-parent families may cast a pall over non-traditional structures like blended families or single-parent homes, suggesting they are flawed structures. To combat this stigma it's crucial to celebrate diversity within families while emphasizing their strength and resilience.

Shifting Cultural Perspectives
Divorce is perceived differently across cultures, with attitudes evolving as attitudes shift. Initiatives that advocate an inclusive view of divorce and question outdated beliefs can help change cultural perspectives on this matter. Education and awareness campaigns can help dispel myths surrounding it while inspiring empathy towards those experiencing its complexity.

Redefining Success
To combat the stigma surrounding divorce, we must redefine success beyond marital status. Success should be measured against personal growth, emotional well-being, and being able to overcome life's obstacles. Promoting acceptance of oneself regardless of social expectations can be a powerful means of breaking down the stigma surrounding divorce.


Divorce stigma is an ongoing challenge we must all work to combat collectively. By acknowledging its emotional cost, advocating mental health support services, and challenging outdated social norms, we can foster an environment in which divorced individuals recognize each other's strength and resilience through open discussions, cultural shifts, and legal reforms.

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About the Author

Crissy Del Percio

Crissy Del Percio is a graduate of the University of Missouri-Kansas City School of Law. Additionally, she received her undergraduate degrees in Journalism (News and Information) and Communication Studies from the world-renowned home of the Jayhawks – the University of Kansas. She has been practicing law for a decade and spent the first part of her career specializing in helping low-income survivors of domestic violence. Now at Drama-Free Divorce, Crissy enjoys helping people consciously uncouple. She is also a Guardian Ad Litem and domestic mediator. Crissy has won a number of prestigious awards for her work in public service, but you likely recognize her from her acting career, where she is also an award-winner. In her free time, she enjoys spending time with her egregiously overpriced dog, Augustus Rodham and knitting. 


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