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Re-Establishing Contact with Your Children after a Divorce

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Drama-Free Divorce can assist in the delicate process of re-establishing contact with your children after a divorce. We also offer flexible financing plans starting from $500 per month for Missouri and Kansas City residents, making it easy to manage divorce-related costs with our transparent pricing model that eliminates financial surprises. Furthermore, our legal professionals not only possess excellent qualifications but are also empathic, understanding any emotional struggles you might be going through during this challenging period.

Rebuilding relationships with your children after divorce can be challenging, so here is a four-step plan to help reunite you and them. Additionally, we discuss when and why to hire a divorce lawyer as well as selecting one best suited for your situation.


How to Assist Your Children After Divorce?

Divorce can be an emotionally taxing experience for all involved, but particularly so for children. Once the dust settles and you've made your transition, it is crucial that you work towards building healthy connections with your children again - this article offers practical steps and insights that can help ease this journey.


Renewing Parental Contact With Children: 4 Essential Steps

Reconnecting with your children after a divorce takes time and dedication - here are four steps that can help guide this process.

  • Open and Honest Communication: Communicating openly and honestly is key to any healthy relationship. Start by inviting your children to share their concerns and feelings, and respond with empathy while actively listening. Assure them you will always be there for them no matter what.
  • Consistency: Being present and punctual during visitation schedules shows your child you care. Being consistent builds their trust and reinforces that commitment.
  • Respect Boundaries: Allow your child the space they require in order to adjust. Don't force them into spending time with you if they aren't ready!
  • Seek Professional Help if Needed: If your child needs professional assistance due to divorce, do not hesitate to seek it. Children can find solace by talking with counselors and therapists, don't wait if your child displays signs of emotional distress before seeking professional assistance.


How Can You Establish and Nurture Strong Relations With Your Children?

Maintaining an amicable relationship with your children after divorce requires constant work, here are some helpful tips that may assist.

  • Spend time doing things your children find enjoyable - this will strengthen your bond and create memories worth remembering.
  • Encouragement, praise, and emotional support are all ways of showing your support. Be genuine about showing an interest in their life, hobbies, or achievements.
  • Whenever possible, seek to maintain an amicable co-parenting arrangement with your ex-spouse for the benefit of your children's well-being and development. Regular rules and disciplines across households will enable their development.
  •  Do not engage in arguments or debate contentious topics directly in front of children, to create an atmosphere free of unnecessary conflict and keep their minds free of unnecessary strain.


Why hiring a divorce attorney is preferable over going without one?

Navigating the legalities of divorce can be complex. Although some couples opt to go it alone, hiring an experienced family law attorney for several reasons can often be beneficial.

  • Legal Expertise: Divorce attorneys specialize in family law and can guide you through the complexities of divorce proceedings with ease, making sure not to miss any key details along the way.
  • Objective Advice: Attorneys offer objective advice that will enable you to make rational decisions during times of emotional upheaval.
  • Negotiation Skills: Attorneys have extensive negotiating skills that can assist with reaching fair agreements regarding property division, child support, and custody arrangements.
  • Legal Documentation: Our company handles all required legal paperwork in order to minimize errors that could cause further complications in the future.
  • Emotional Buffer: By acting as an intermediary between you and your former spouse, an attorney can act as an emotional buffer and reduce the chances of direct conflict between you two.


When should you hire an attorney?

Your divorce outcome can be significantly affected by when and how quickly you hire an attorney. Typically, it's wise to consult an attorney as soon as you consider filing for divorce. However, there may be specific instances when seeking legal advice is warranted.

  • Contested Divorce: A contested divorce may be necessary in cases involving disputes over property, child custody or alimony payments. Consult an attorney if your divorce will involve such issues.
  • Complex Financial Situations: Hiring an attorney to assist in the division of complex assets, businesses or debts can be invaluable in terms of efficiency.
  • Child Custody Wars: If disputes over child custody arise, legal representation can help safeguard your parental rights and provide invaluable peace of mind.
  • Spousal Abuse and Misconduct: In the event of any past abuse or misconduct from your partner, it is imperative to consult an attorney and protect both yourself and your children.


What are the criteria for finding a good attorney?

Finding a competent divorce attorney is of utmost importance, so here are a few criteria that should be taken into account:

  • Experience: Select an attorney with extensive knowledge in divorce and family law cases.
  • Investigate the reputation of any attorney you consider, including reviews from clients and recommendations by peers.
  • Communication: Choose an attorney who is communicative and responsive, someone who will keep you up-to-date throughout the entire process.
  • Cost: It is best to discuss fees and payment plans early on to prevent any unexpected surprises.
  • Compatibility: Compatibility with your attorney is of utmost importance, they should make you feel at ease, creating an ideal atmosphere and leading to a healthy relationship between both of you.


Why Choose Drama-Free Divorce?

Drama-Free Divorce is committed to providing you with the highest-quality legal representation. Our experienced team of divorce attorneys possess vast knowledge of family law and have helped clients successfully navigate divorce.

  • Experience: Our attorneys have the skill set necessary to handle even the most complex divorce scenarios with ease.
  • Reputation: Our outstanding reputation stems from both satisfied clients and recognition from within the legal community.
  • Communication: At our firm, we place great emphasis on maintaining open and direct lines of communication with our clients at every step in their case.
  • Affordability: Our services are accessible and affordably priced, offering transparent pricing and flexible payment plans.
  • Compassion and Support: Drama-Free Divorce understands the emotional toll a divorce can take. We provide both legal guidance and emotional support to help guide our clients through this difficult period.


Suggestions for Action

  • Speak to an Attorney: If you are contemplating divorce, meeting with an experienced divorce attorney to discuss your situation in depth and receive expert advice is invaluable.
  • Communicate Openly: Communicate openly and honestly with your children, assuring them of your love.
  • Consistency: Be consistent in scheduling visits with your child.
  • Therapeutic Support: If needed, therapy or counseling could help both you and your children.
  • Select Wisely: When choosing a divorce attorney, be mindful to find one who fits with both your values and needs.

Rebuilding relationships after a divorce takes time and dedication. Restore loving and strong bonds between your children and you by being patient, persistent, and determined to rebuild them. Contact us today at 816 615-5555 or send us an email on our Contact Page.

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